Relationship Help:
For People who
want to change



The best relationship help teaches you to help yourself.  There are proven, holistic methods that can help you stop struggling with painful, unwanted thoughts, feelings and behaviors.  

I'm devoted to learning, practicing, and teaching TRANSFORMATION.

Information and traditional psychology just don't go far enough.  

I aim for deep healing - a lot deeper than typical online relationship advice or superficial strategies for problem solving.  

While there is nothing wrong with articles about how you SHOULD change

It is Another Entirely Different Thing to be ABLE to do it

         HOW do you actually change?

Three question marks because relationship help and online relationship advice doesn't go deep enough to create real change!

Do you want the kind of self help for relationships that shows you how to help yourself?

 There are holistic, highly effective ways to release past pain and stuck patterns AND then develop the qualities you need to ensure good relationships - with yourself, with life AND with others.  Others as lovers, others as friends, others as family, colleagues, neighbors and more.

There are powerful ways to release the underlying issues that cause any relationship problem. 

  • Do you have icky sticky patterns in the way you do relationships?  Have you wished you could show up differently? 
  • Do you over-react because of abandonment issues? Drive people away with clingy fear and distrust?  

Have you discovered how crazy hard it can be to find deep, meaningful, powerful relationship help that really works?  With stuff like:

What would it be like if you were confident that the relationship help you need will create deep and lasting change?   

So YOU can have healthy relationships?

What would it be like to...

feel powerful in changing your own patterns (even smack in the middle of  a not so healthy relationship)?

What would it be like to...

  • Be Present, centered, calm and peaceful?
  • Show up as a person you are proud of?
  • Relax?
  • Feel worthy?
  • Confidently deal with whatever healing or growth you need?
  • Find clarity in the chaos?
  • Live a life of freedom (rather than endless healing of emotional pain?)

Would you like to know exactly what kind of relationship help you need that will create positive changes? 

Would you like to FEEL the sweetness of love, trust, connection, intimacy, bonding, security?  AND...do you want to attract others with these qualities?

What would it be like to make real progress toward the changes that you KNOW you need - so that you can enjoy relationships with just about anyone? 


I can help you learn  
the relationship help you need
so old wounds, habits and family patterns
(which create most common relationship problems)
have less power to create bad relationships


Woman dragging her broken heart behind her needs to develop healthy relationship from within first

Most of us live in "autopilot" based on painful:

  • experiences/memories
  • family patterns
  • feelings
  • beliefs
  • unmet needs 
  • unconscious fears 
  • shame

You can be authentically less needy and emotionally dependent on relationships - less triggered, less afraid, less broken and ashamed - while at the same time becoming a healthy person that attracts healthy people and have a healthy relationship - even with those crazy annoying family members! 

Use alternative healing therapy methods to 

      ~  BYPASS your conscious mind
     ~  IDENTIFY exactly what you are ready to release
     ~  shift your mind, body, emotion, spirit & energy

 into what is more coherent, life-giving and empowering
Here and Now 


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Do you feel like you've tried everything? 

Now You CAN shift your perception and response -- and thus your REALITY

Literally change who you know yourself to be

and learn how to positively influence who you CAN be --

There IS a way for all this (and so much more).   And anyone can do it.

YES, "EVEN YOU"! 

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"It's the only thing I've found that actually DOES anything."
"A", Attorney in Australia


By Laura Frisbie, Alternative Relationship Therapist
M.Ed., C.R.R.P.

Because I am a Certified Resonance Repatterning Practitioner, insurance is not an option.  I do not work with mental illness or offer treatments for severe depression. Published content, sessions, webinars, etc., are not a substitute for psychiatric treatment.