Resolve Common Relationship Problems

Common relationship problems are not about the PROBLEM

They are about the people who have relationship problems.  Relating, attachment, insecurity, jealousy, controlling, fear of intimacy and other issues run deep and below conscious awareness.  

There are unmet needs, hurts, unfinished business, fear of intimacy and traumas that flare in an instant.

Maybe you've tried to change.  Maybe you've tried to get other people to change. How is that working?

Even the most successful energy psychology therapies have very limited success.  Why?  Because they depend on you knowing what the original root cause of the issue or trauma. And that is darn near impossible for several reasons.  

Relationship and attachment trauma generally isn't a one-time event. The people and situations happened through time as you were developing your sense of self and other and the dynamics of relationship. 

Most of it is buried deep within you in your unconscious and body memory. It is in the way your brain and breath and nervous system is wired.  

It is in the patterns that are passed through the generations.  

The personal issues that create most common relationship problems developed during childhood. They are woven into your personality. That is why books, talking, personality tests, tapping affirmations or breath work have limited success.

Heal the deepest root causes of common relationship problems

It may sound arrogant, but in truth there is nothing like the process that I use to identify and SHIFT and heal the deepest root causes of common relationship problems.

Have you ever wished you could find help that works with intense, stuck relationship problems?  Are you ready to see and heal what lies deep within you?    Book your free consultation here: How you can experience the joy of successful relationships through healing your inner wounds and issues

“This is very deep, very insightful work. It brings revelation that ‘sticks to my ribs’ and I get bits and pieces as days go by. It’s the real deal. I enjoy this!”   “D. R.”  Pilates Studio Owner/Instructor

There are very powerful reasons why some of us are discouraged about overcoming fear of abandonment and other common relationship problems. Yet, we CAN change.


Woman dragging her broken heart behind her needs to develop healthy relationship from within first

You can release the residue of:

  • experiences/memories
  • family patterns
  • feelings
  • beliefs
  • unmet needs 
  • unconscious fears 
  • shame

Old wounds, habits and family patterns (which create most common relationship problems) have less power to create bad relationships.

You can be authentically less needy and emotionally dependent on relationships - less triggered, less afraid, less broken and ashamed - while at the same time becoming a healthy person that attracts healthy people and have a healthy relationship (even with those annoying family members!)


Would  you like to...

  • Be present, centered, calm and peaceful?
  • Show up as a person you are proud of?
  • Relax?
  • Feel worthy?
  • Confidently deal with issues?
  • Find clarity in the chaos?
  • Live a life of freedom (rather than endless healing of emotional pain?)

Would you like to FEEL the sweetness of love, trust, connection, intimacy, bonding, security?  AND...do you want to attract others with these qualities?



How are you abandoning what you love?  This poem suggests a beautiful way to fill myself with something sweeter.  Poem for Abandonment Issues


Keep in mind that most of the core underlying issues that affect you are UNCONSCIOUS  Go to How to Heal Abandonment Issues


In order to change, it is crucial to first have a  deep understanding of the root causes of your social anxiety.  Go to Self Help Social Anxiety 


If you want to learn how to heal abandonment
start by accepting that you have a brain that loves you and is vigilant about looking after you. It just gets a little carried away!  I promise…if you work WITH your brain, it will work with you. Your brain can learn how to heal abandonment.

Go to Get Empowered

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By Laura Frisbie, M.Ed., C.R.R.P.

Because I am a Certified Resonance Repatterning Practitioner, insurance is not an option.  Published content, sessions, webinars, etc., are not a substitute for psychiatric treatment.