Free Advice for Relationship Problems
This helps you prepare for your free consultation. It is for your eyes only and you are welcome to do it in your mind only. It should help you begin to get a sense of whether there is some "baggage" or issues that, once cleared, could improve your relationships.
1. Check all that apply:
___ I’d like my relationships in general to feel better (includes friends,
co-workers, parents, children etc.)
___ I’d like to be in an intimate relationship.
___ I’d like more closeness and intimacy in my current relationship.
___ I’d like to have a better relationship with myself (comfortable being
hobbies/interests, self-care, etc.)
2. I’d like to show up differently in my relationships
(For example) I wish I was:
___ more secure
___ less needy of reassurances
___ more independent
___ less seeking of approval
___ confident expressing myself
___ worthy feeling
3. I’d like to attract people who are more safe, fun, secure, reliable, healthy, self-sufficient, etc.
Do you tend to attract people who have a lot of problems or aren't available to give and receive positive love and support?
4. Check all that apply in any way to your childhood – some are big and obvious, others are subtle.
a.) Loss of one or both parents, during any period of time, due to:
___ Your being put into the care of relatives, foster care, or adoption
___ Divorce/split-up/single parenting
___ Drug or alcohol addiction
___ Depression or mental illness
___ Chronic physical absence due to work, travel, illness, nannies, maids, etc.
b.) Lack of “Parental Presence” – often related to mental or emotional or financial stress or illness, unhappiness, distraction, disinterest. Check any examples listed and/or write in your own:
___ Physical, sexual, or verbal abuse
___ General negative attitude: mean or unpleasant, unfriendly, cold, bitterness, disillusionment.
___ Anxiety (Anxious mothers, for example, typically instill anxiety in their children.)
___ Priorities put on appearances, how things look to others.
___ Not "seeing" you or your needs. Not listening. Not
reassuring or supporting you.
5. What was the quality of your parents or caregivers relationship with each other or with others or with you. How did they do at relating or bonding, giving or receiving love?
What do you think you learned from being in that environment? From that "role modeling" about the different qualities of relationships?
6. How do you feel about the quality of the relationships in your life at this time?
Are your feelings familiar to you? Did you ever feel like this during your childhood?
7. Are you ready for deep healing and empowering change around your relationship patterns? Do you believe your relationships can change - from the inside out?
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During your consultation and free advice for relationship problems, I promise that I will not be trying to convince you to work with me. I'll describe what I do, and how I think it can help.
My work is very successful with people who WANT to work with me. That is why I do not sell gift certificates (even though there are many requests from satisfied clients who want their "other" or their mother or their child or best friend to experience the growth this work brings.)
My sessions are done conveniently by phone or Skype without video...so it doesn’t matter where you’re located. Please begin our connection by filling out this contact form.
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and will never send unwanted email
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My sessions go deeper (and bring far greater results)
than problem-solving, traditional therapy, or body-work alone.
Please contact me today to schedule your free consultation
and free advice for relationship problems.