When You're Dealing with Abandonment Issues


Dealing with abandonment issues is tough.  It takes a while before it even occurs to you that these sorts of issues could be what's going on with you. And its usually after parts of your life are in shambles.

THEN the fun begins:  Am I dealing with abandonment issues? What does that mean, how do I know? How can I find out?  What ARE abandonment issues? How can I FIX THIS MESS that is ME?

And of course, like everything else that plagues us humans learning how to be better humans, there is a spectrum from severe to mild. There is the big, loud, reactive types and the withdrawn "I just want to be invisible" types.

There are the obvious cases where there was a literal loss of someone...or adoption, for example. And there are the subtle, sensitive "It's not okay to be me - or I'm not seen and heard" type cases.

Most often, the root causes of abandonment issues come from having "imperfect" humans for parents who couldn't nurture us into a secure, empowered sense of well-being.

If you get hung up about whether you have abandonment issues because you have a loving relationship with your parents, understand that it really isn't about that. 

And it isn't disloyal or whiny or victimized to choose to heal "abandonment anxiety" (or whatever personal growth you need).  You deserve to do what you need so you can feel good - even with all the challenges.

Sometimes people have abandonment issues to the point of having a "disorder."  But the practical reality is
we can all suffer from some degree of abandonment issues.

My view is that you are not broken, its just that there's layers of "misunderstandings" or confusion, hurts, unfinished business ETC. that are covering your inner light. Let's get your light shining bright!

Take the long view of your life and relationships. What triggers you beyond reason? What is taking up energy in a way that doesn't work? What puts you into a space that you'd love to move beyond? 

Choose the personal development path that you need and let go of being concerned about labels.  


Hello!  I'm Laura Frisbie and I've been dealing with abandonment issues for 60 years! {Professionally for 20 years:-) }

You know how women with abandonment issues get triggered into emotional reactivity, insecurity, and unhealthy relationships? 

I teach them how to release emotions held deep in their unconscious body mind. Those emotional states of being have often existed since childhood. Those states of being are largely unconscious and they create an unconsciously constricted state of being. My process is integrated with powerful processes of emotional constriction release. 

This allows more capacity to be fully present and to access adult perspectives and resources. An objectivity emerges that allows a bit of detached seeing how they've been stuck in patterns that they've outgrown.  I help them shift emotionally, mentally, and energetically into more empowering ways to see them selves and relate to life. 

I work with the Resonance Repatterning® system, Akashic Records, The Wisdom of the Enneagram, Buddhist and eastern consciousness teachings, vibrational healing, Byron Katie's The Work, Biofield Tuning, Traditional Western Therapy, Aptitudes, Tarot, and Essences.


Dealing with abandonment issues typically involves getting triggered into painful reactions.  Naturally our desire is to quickly "fix" or get rid of our pain (as if feeling better is all that is needed). 

But triggers are surface symptoms of much more. Within the energetic structure of a session, we can do a deep dive into the underlying messages and gifts held within the symptoms.

At the same time training our body mind to stay present in order to attain sustainable, solid transformation. 

But as someone who has lived through this as a fricken' poster child of abandonment issues, when you go beyond symptoms and get to the roots, you can change your experience of life - you can become someone you can't even imagine...

Much of what you need to heal isn't responsive to traditional therapy and books ETC.  What needs healing is buried deep within your unconscious body memory.

It is in the way your energy flows (or not), it is in the way your brain and breath and nervous system are wired. 

It's in your stress responses, family history, culture, sense of self, how you make or avoid choices and decisions (your identity) - and can be passed through the generations. 

And as we "repattern" those elements, we are creating a new you, with a coherent, powerful, personal identity. You can experience a liberating expansion of who you know yourself to be...

in a way that goes FAR BEYOND dealing with abandonment issues.

When I work with someone, the first sessions will bring up the places where there is stored pain.  With some powerful and effective deep emotional releases, the capacity to be more objective arises. 

And that empowers you to shift into the life-changing personal growth opportunities that lie beneath your abandonment symptoms. Because, as you probably know, dealing with abandonment issues is PERVASIVE.

Going beneath symptoms with more objectivity makes you available to develop qualities like:

  • self-esteem and confidence
  • trust and inner guidance
  • boundaries and standing up for yourself, letting go of toxic relationships
  • managing the inner critic, developing inner peace and calm
couple with coffee at rainy window paneEFFECTIVELY dealing with abandonment issues can mean a new you

Dealing with abandonment issues effectively means going to ground zero (where patterns began - where they are unconscious). We can repattern how you see yourself and how you relate to life.

I offer the best of all worlds - grounded, practical relationship advice, deep emotional release, and holistic healing for mind, body and spirit. 

I have often been told that "one session is like years of therapy." 

I AM a person that has truly, deeply, positively transformed...
and that is why it has been my passion for 20 years!

 Book your free consultation here: Discover how you can make unmistakable progress in dealing with abandonment issues.

“This is very deep, very insightful work. It brings revelation that ‘sticks to my ribs’ and I get bits and pieces as days go by. It’s the real deal. I enjoy this!”   “D. R.”  Pilates Studio Owner/Instructor



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By Laura Frisbie, M.Ed., C.R.R.P.
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Because I'm a Certified Resonance Replacement Practitioner, insurance is not an option. Published content, sessions, webinars, etc., are not a substitute for psychiatric treatment.