Dealing with abandonment issues is tough. It takes a while before it even occurs to you that these sorts of issues could be what's going on with you. And its usually after parts of your life are in shambles.
THEN the fun begins: Am I dealing with abandonment issues? What does that mean, how do I know? How can I find out? What ARE abandonment issues? How can I FIX THIS MESS that is ME?
And of course, like everything else that plagues us humans learning how to be better humans, there is a spectrum from severe to mild. There is the big, loud, reactive types and the withdrawn "I just want to be invisible" types.
There are the obvious cases where there was a literal loss of someone...or adoption, for example. And there are the subtle, sensitive "It's not okay to be me - or I'm not seen and heard" type cases.
You know how women with abandonment issues get triggered into emotional reactivity, insecurity, and unhealthy relationships?
I teach them how to release emotions held deep in their unconscious body mind. Those emotional states of being have often existed since childhood. Those states of being are largely unconscious and they create an unconsciously constricted state of being. My process is integrated with powerful processes of emotional constriction release.
This allows more capacity to be fully present and to access adult perspectives and resources. An objectivity emerges that allows a bit of detached seeing how they've been stuck in patterns that they've outgrown. I help them shift emotionally, mentally, and energetically into more empowering ways to see them selves and relate to life.
I work with the Resonance Repatterning® system, Akashic Records, The Wisdom of the Enneagram, Buddhist and eastern consciousness teachings, vibrational healing, Byron Katie's The Work, Biofield Tuning, Traditional Western Therapy, Aptitudes, Tarot, and Essences.
Dealing with abandonment issues typically involves getting triggered into painful reactions. Naturally our desire is to quickly "fix" or get rid of our pain (as if feeling better is all that is needed).
But triggers are surface symptoms of much more. Within the energetic structure of a session, we can do a deep dive into the underlying messages and gifts held within the symptoms.
At the same time training our body mind to stay present in order to attain sustainable, solid transformation.
But as someone who has lived through this as a
fricken' poster child of abandonment issues, when you go beyond
symptoms and get to the roots, you can change your experience of life -
you can become someone you can't even imagine...
of what you need to heal isn't responsive to traditional therapy and
books ETC. What needs healing is buried deep within your
unconscious body memory.
It is in the way your energy flows (or not), it is in the way your brain and breath and nervous system are wired.
It's in your stress responses, family history, culture, sense of self, how you make or avoid choices and decisions (your identity) - and can be passed through the generations.
And as we "repattern" those elements, we are creating a new you, with a coherent, powerful, personal identity. You can experience a liberating expansion of who you know yourself to be...
When I work with someone, the first sessions will bring up the places where there is stored pain. With some powerful and effective deep emotional releases, the capacity to be more objective arises.
empowers you to shift into the life-changing personal growth
opportunities that lie beneath your abandonment symptoms. Because, as
you probably know, dealing with abandonment issues is PERVASIVE.
Going beneath symptoms with more objectivity makes you available to develop qualities like:
I offer the best of all worlds - grounded, practical relationship advice, deep emotional release, and holistic healing for mind, body and spirit.
I have often been told that "one session is like years of therapy."
I AM a person that has truly, deeply, positively transformed...
and that is why it has been my passion for 20 years!
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By Laura Frisbie, M.Ed., C.R.R.P.
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Because I'm a Certified Resonance Replacement Practitioner, insurance is not an option. Published content, sessions, webinars, etc., are not a substitute for psychiatric treatment.