What Kind of Abandonment issues Do You Have?

Abandonment issues - What are they and how do you know if you have them?

And what if you weren't literally "abandoned"?  What can you do to find out? And if it IS abandonment issues you are dealing with, what to do?

There are so many obvious AND subtle ways abandonment issues make themselves known. Here's a few examples of each (obvious & subtle).

Obvious:

• You over-react
• You jump to worst case scenarios
• You feel problems are your fault
• You can't trust
• You feel unworthy
• You give too much
• You are too "needy"
• Relationships create emotional pain

Subtle:

• You can't directly communicate your feelings or needs in a neutral way
• You tend to "cut-off" rather than work things out
• You write people off as jerks
• You don't really know what you want -but try hard to be "good"
• You dwell on past hurts
• You see yourself as a "wounded" person
• You get so upset about relationship issues it's hard to be productive
• A bad relationship is better than no relationship
• You replay interactions and regret your behavior
• You can't end or cope with relationships ending
• You compare yourself to others
• You measure your worth by how much others love you
• You want to "get" more love

Most people with abandonment issues were NOT actually literally abandoned NOR did they necessarily lose a parent.  

There are a lot of "good people" who for many reasons were not able to be "good parents" despite their best efforts and intentions.

Parents are often immature and extremely stressed out. They are often wounded and hurt and carry  family patterns.  They can be insecure, addicted, angry. They can hold narrow, rigid moral standards.

In short, being born human to human parents is more than enough to sow the seeds for patterns that go deep and below conscious choice and qualify as abandonment issues.  

One way you can look at it is along the lines of the old saying "If you have to ask how much it costs, you can't afford it."   But in this case...If you are wondering about abandonment issues, you probably have them.

Honestly, does it make a difference if you call your suffering OR your opportunity for healing by any other name? Insecurity? Fear of rejection? Complex PTSD?  Mother issues? Fear of abandonment? Low self-esteem?

Whatever it is, chances are, you’ve been trying to get over it for a while. 

You are tired of being upset. You just want to get better. 

And you are somewhere between discouraged and despairing, maybe even feeling crippled in your ability to ever have the relationship happiness you want.

Yet, somehow, whatever you've been doing to heal is never enough.

FINALLY heal abandonment issues?

I understand why you feel discouraged, tired,
“crippled in your ability to have healthy intimate relationships”

...and you're afraid abandonment issues
will ruin your relationships

I know how terrible that feels because I’ve been there. 

The worst part is when I'm the one causing the problems. Because of the pain I tried to heal but still carry. Because I wanted a "good" relationship so desperately that I lost myself.

I’ve come a long way since those days. And you can, too.

What I finally discovered is a process that can ask my "mind-body system" to immediately pinpoint exactly what happened AND what I need - so it can finally heal and shift.  

I discovered that most of what holds abandonment issues (or whatever you call "it") was what I couldn't see, often not at all what I would expect. 

“If you bring forth what is within you,
what you bring forth will save you.

If you do not bring forth what is within you,
what you do not bring forth will destroy you.” 
Gospel of Thomas

What is Within Can Set You Free

What happened to you
(and what heals you)
is rarely what you think

It is in your conscious, unconscious, and higher consciousness:

• in your body memory
• the relationships you experienced
• in your family system
• your breath
• your neural networks
• your fight/flight responses
• your personality structure 

      (just to name a few!)  

Your “body-mind-system” contains all this and more AND is what sets you free.  

Yes, there is a safe, straightforward way to access all of that (AND what you need) in order to heal and move on.

I know this because I’ve been doing it for years. I’ve done it to heal myself and I’ve helped hundreds of clients for almost 20 years.

I can’t promise an instant “fix”.  What I can promise is that you will see real progress. 

What I offer is different from anything else out there. 

This is different because it ASKS your mind and body system what is causing YOUR abandonment issues. 

It is an amazing process that accesses your higher-self for both the "cause and cure" that YOU need, in THIS moment. 

 Think of it this way... your "symptoms or issues" come unbidden, uninvited, unwanted, uncontrollable. 

They are proof that the unresolved "stuff" is there -
even though you don't want it.  

Those symptoms or patterns "reveal" what is going on.
AND what is needed to get free of them. 

Only you can bring what is within you to completion - and I can help you do that in an extremely effective and uplifting way.  

Together, we can facilitate your profound healing and growth.

Healing is a process. Change and growth happen as you experience the healing process.

I promise that you will know you have touched a true place inside yourself. A place where there had been an unfinished experience that needed healing.   

And then you’ll see healing as it ripples out:

into your current experience of yourself
your relationships
and your life 

You will be the person who knows how
to get stronger and wiser
because of your experiences

instead of crippled
by what you don’t know how to heal 

You’ll be the person who has had an embodied experience of healing from you, through you, to you.  

You’ll know the incredible wisdom, healing, hope and love that originate from deep inside you, even with your pain.  

You’ll know yourself as the person who stuck with it,
who knew that the love, trust and bonding you want is available, no matter what happened in the past.   

Because the only way to get rid of abandonment issues
is to heal them at the root

Are you interested in finding out how my process would work for you?

Let’s find out if we are a good fit, it takes just a minute to book a free consultation with me.

(There is a $10 deposit that is fully refunded upon completion of the consultation.)

There is never any pressure to buy because it wouldn't work if you didn't WANT to do it.

Finally, here’s just two of many things people say...

Did You Know? 

Resonance Repatterning:

~Provides a cutting-edge combination of traditional and alternative therapies 

~Is routinely provided long-distance via phone or Skype

~Uses Resonance Kinesiology to access information from your energy field.

~Releases deep unconscious traumas and emotional blocks stored in your body n mind system…often on the first session.

~Works on the quantum level as described by Deepak Chopra and many others (to access information beyond what you can see (much like a school of fish or a flock of birds can operate as one.)

Click below to learn more: 

Fear of Abandonment: Heal The Feelings & Traumas Causing Your Fears

By Laura Frisbie, M.Ed., C.R.R.P.
All Sessions Provided by Phone/Skype

Because I am a Certified Resonance Repatterning Practitioner, insurance is not an option.  Published content, sessions, webinars, etc., are not a substitute for psychiatric treatment.

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Laura Frisbie, M.Ed., C.R.R.P.
Certified Resonance Repatterning Practitioner
Since 1999