Abandonment issues - What are they and how do you know if you have them?
And what if you weren't literally "abandoned"? What can you do to find out? And if it IS abandonment issues you are dealing with, what to do?
There are so many obvious AND subtle ways abandonment issues make themselves known. Here's a few examples of each (obvious & subtle).
Most people with abandonment issues were NOT actually literally abandoned NOR did they necessarily lose a parent.
There are a lot of "good people" who for many reasons were not able to be "good parents" despite their best efforts and intentions.
Parents are often immature and extremely stressed out. They are often wounded and hurt and carry family patterns. They can be insecure, addicted, angry. They can hold narrow, rigid moral standards.
In short, being born human to human parents is more than enough to sow the seeds for patterns that go deep and below conscious choice and qualify as abandonment issues.
One way you can look at it is along the lines of the old saying "If you have to ask how much it costs, you can't afford it." But in this case...If you are wondering about abandonment issues, you probably have them.
Honestly, does it make a difference if you call your suffering OR your opportunity for healing by any other name? Insecurity? Fear of rejection? Complex PTSD? Mother issues? Fear of abandonment? Low self-esteem?
Whatever it is, chances are, you’ve been trying to get over it for a while.
You are tired of being upset. You just want to get better.
And you are somewhere between discouraged and despairing, maybe even feeling crippled in your ability to ever have the relationship happiness you want.
Yet, somehow, whatever you've been doing to heal is never enough.
I know how terrible that feels because I’ve been there.
The worst part is when I'm the one causing the problems. Because of the pain I tried to heal but still carry. Because I wanted a "good" relationship so desperately that I lost myself.
I’ve come a long way since those days. And you can, too.
What I finally discovered is a process that can ask my "mind-body system" to immediately pinpoint exactly what happened AND what I need - so it can finally heal and shift.
I discovered that most of what holds abandonment issues (or whatever you call "it") was what I couldn't see, often not at all what I would expect.
It is in your conscious, unconscious, and higher consciousness:
(just to name a few!)
Your “body-mind-system” contains all this and more AND is what sets you free.
Yes, there is a safe, straightforward way to access all of that (AND what you need) in order to heal and move on.
I know this because I’ve been doing it for years. I’ve done it to heal myself and I’ve helped hundreds of clients for almost 20 years.
I can’t promise an instant “fix”. What I can promise is that you will see real progress.
What I offer is different from anything else out there.
This is different because it ASKS your mind and body system what is causing YOUR abandonment issues.
It is an amazing process that accesses your higher-self for both the "cause and cure" that YOU need, in THIS moment.
Think of it this way... your "symptoms or issues" come unbidden, uninvited, unwanted, uncontrollable.
They are proof that the unresolved "stuff" is there -
even though you don't want it.
Those symptoms or patterns "reveal" what is going on.
AND what is needed to get free of them.
Only you can bring what is within you to completion - and I can help you do that in an extremely effective and uplifting way.
Together, we can facilitate your profound healing and growth.
Healing is a process. Change and growth happen as you experience the healing process.
I promise that you will know you have touched a true place inside yourself. A place where there had been an unfinished experience that needed healing.
And then you’ll see healing as it ripples out:
into your current experience of yourself
and your life
You will be the person who knows how
to get stronger and wiser
because of your experiences
instead of crippled
by what you don’t know how to heal
You’ll be the person who has had an embodied experience of healing from you, through you, to you.
You’ll know the incredible wisdom, healing, hope and love that originate from deep inside you, even with your pain.
You’ll know yourself as the person who stuck with it,
who knew that the love, trust and bonding you want is available, no matter what happened in the past.
Are you interested in finding out how my process would work for you?
Let’s find out if we are a good fit, it takes just a minute to book a free consultation with me.
(There is a $10 deposit that is fully refunded upon completion of the consultation.)
There is never any pressure to buy because it wouldn't work if you didn't WANT to do it.
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By Laura Frisbie, M.Ed., C.R.R.P.
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