In order to overcome fear of abandonment, one of the first things is name it and claim what you want instead. Demand it!
Love, respect and happiness in relationship is a basic human need. You deserve it. But you have to fight for it!
For a lot of us, that sounds like fantasy land. And it triggers feelings – hurt, anger, shame, grief. Good luck getting that particular need met! It looks good on paper, right?
Overcome fear of abandonment?
HOW? It's soooo HEAVY!
Basically, you have to grow. You are going to have to get tough, get determined and get humble. It ain't EASY. Healing abandonment issues can be utterly discouraging. Here’s a few reasons why:
Maybe worst of all, abandonment issues become a self-fulfilling prophesy. Fear and neediness spoils trust and connection. You find yourself in a bind, between a rock and a hard place kind of thing.
Any of This Seem Familiar?
Are you thrown off center around relationships? Wish you could be more centered? Don’t know what being centered feels like? Don’t think it’s important?
Do you fall apart... or obsess?
Do you see yourself as flawed, unworthy, needy or at fault in relationships?
There are reasons why some of us can’t handle the challenges of relationships, reasons we are discouraged about our ability to overcome fear of abandonment. Yet, we CAN change.
The only way is one step at a time…just like everything else in life.
Why I Love Abandonment Issues
In relationships, buried emotional wounds and other “baggage” make themselves known. Relationships have a way of forcing us to become aware of our “stuff.”
While our symptoms are painful, embarrassing and limiting, at least we are not numbed out or cut off.
The good news is that we encounter enough pain to be motivated to grow. The yearning for peace and connection is beautiful and can result in life being a much more fulfilling experience.
LIFE IS RELATIONSHIP and it has been said that you are as happy as your relationships. Life itself is centered upon RELATING. Learning how to overcome fear of abandonment brings HUGE growth and positive change to your experience of life (like nothing else can).
How can you make relationships work -- without quite so much painful, exhausting drama?
It is pretty much all up to you. No person or relationship, no analyst or therapist, psychic or healer, no healing technique, meditation, or hypnosis can do this for you.
That is why you have to be tough, determined and humble in order to make progress and eventually overcome fear of abandonment.
My clients have included plenty of therapists, healing practitioners, spiritual leaders, body workers, nurses and so on. Even being an expert practitioner does not grant freedom from abandonment issues.
I’m here to help you identify and release what blocks you in the most natural human condition there is – relationships. You can discover your innate strength, wisdom, love and inner light through the unique opportunity that your abandonment issues bring.
I have a lifetime of learning from my own experiences -- as well as from many hundreds of clients. I’ve learned from studying just about every angle of healing, personal growth, relationships, psychology, consciousness and trauma recovery under the sun (as well as from working with an untold number of healer/helpers along my path).
And I’ve picked up more than a thing or two on how it all works.
You may be surprised. With help, you can get out of your own way long enough to see that you truly can change from the inside out. You probably understand by now that this can’t be solved by figuring it out. That is where I can help.
Send me an email and tell me about your biggest challenge trying to overcome fear of abandonment.
You can tell me about your abandonment issues and what has been hard for you to change.
Absolutely NO SELLING whatsoever is connected with this. There are no strings or hidden offers, just a chance to get you closer to what you need. Love, respect, and happiness in relationship.
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By Laura Frisbie, M.Ed., C.R.R.P.
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